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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 05:10

How does one succeed in life?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Making more friends is a goal.

Am I the bitch for never wanting to talk to my sister again because of something she said while talking back to me?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

When does a man tell a woman he has feelings for her?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Have you been arrested or investigated?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why can't flat-Earthers create an agency like NASA to explore Earth to prove it is flat? What's preventing them from doing so?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

What shouldn't you Google?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

What I need from you?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

When was you wife swapping fantasy started?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why did Mark Lane harass Helen Markham during an illegally recorded telephone conversation to misidentify Lee Harvey Oswald who she witnessed as the shooter of Tippit?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Musk's DOGE workers are now investigating Medicare and Medicaid. They want to eliminate fraud, but can they also be hurting poor Americans and senior citizens' benefits?

That's it for today.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How do you get a girl to like you?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Ask yourself:

Have you ever seen your wife being fucked?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Do not set goals—set systems.

How conservative the Japanese people really is? And the government?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

A kid threw a stone at my car. I confronted his mom (who was nearby). She said, "You can't prove it was my son." How should I have reacted?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.